Commentary fun.

[catsidhe]

Go read this. And the comments.
Now read the followup, and its comments.

Now talk amongst yourselves.

Comments

[felinefaerie.livejournal.com]

He's good.

A female perspective would be Ginmar's LJ.

[catsidhe.livejournal.com]

Then there is this post I made a while back, with a more philosophical take on the concept.