I think there are good things in a "traditional" female stereotype, but that these things/traits are seldom or never presented in a good way. In the analysis of Aurora in Sleeping Beauty, she isn't even a human, mainly a prize. And i agree with the analysis, that's how the story presents her. But it is really really sad to me.

Regardless of your girls (who seem to be doing just fine), I do worry, in general, about how women view other women and themselves.